DOCTOR
VIBE
Dear Doctor Vibe,
I recently presented the idea to my boyfriend that it would be fun to use toys when we are
together which freaked him out a little since he is a "Man's Man" who feels
threatened by the toy and asked, "Don't I please you enough to not use toys."
Our sex life is great together but how can I talk him into using a vibrator in our play?
Signed,
Frustrated
Dear Frustrated,
This is a common problem with many men who are more conservative and have a Machismo
attitude. Since your sex life is great together, you need to let him know if you have not
and let him know it has only to do with adding a new element in your sex play. You may
even start off by having him rub the vibrator "massager" all over your body and
tell him it is like a massage which you enjoy and then ease him into using the vibrator in
more erogenous areas. The important thing is to not have him feel threatened by the sex
play and that it is another form of foreplay that can lead to the ultimate satisfaction.
Regards,
Dr. V
Dear Dr. Vibe
I have been single for quite some time and have heard from friends that I should get a
pocket rocket since they are the best vibrator. What do you think.
Signed,
Roxy
Dear Roxy,
Vibrators are a great way of pleasuring and relaxing yourself although there is no
"best" vibrator. Each person has different sensitivity and different opinions on
what they enjoy. The same person even may have different wants at different times which
would change which vibrator is "best" for them. I have heard that Pocket Rockets
are great as well as The Rabbit. Vibrator 101 has a great selection of the top vibrators
so pick and choose one that seems to fit your needs after speaking with friends and
looking at descriptions. There are many women who have multiple vibrators, depending on
their mood is the decider of which one they will use. I hope this information is helpful!
Regards,
Dr. V
Dear Dr. Vibe
I am a guy who has a "men's" vibrator and get laughed at by friends who know I
have it. I am not gay but enjoy using them as opposed to other toys. I got into them after
a girlfriend would rub it on my penis and realized it felt great on me as well as her. Is
this normal for guys to use vibrators?
Signed,
Confused
Dear Confused,
I first want to let you know that more and more men are now using vibrators and some
manufacturers are even making lines of vibrators for men! There is nothing to worry about.
Vibrators are fun for everyone and there should be no shame in using the toy for pleasure,
whether you are a heterosexual, homosexual, bi-sexual man or woman.
Regards,
Dr. V |
